Tuesday, 1 April 2014
Eight strategies to improve quality and balance in life
Tuesday, 24 September 2013
National Work Life Week: Improving personal effectiveness forever
This week is National Work Life Week so I wanted to share a few insights that have cropped up recently during our Managing Pressure & Building Personal Resilience Workshops.
The workshops have resulted in some dramatic changes in working practices, freeing up valuable hours previously eaten up by inefficient
planning, travel time, ineffectual meetings, low energy and lack of engagement.
'This is the best
training course I’ve ever attended. The
changes I’ve made since the workshop have helped me restructure my working
month and create a more efficient routine for how I manage my
time. This has in turn made the work schedule of my entire team more
efficient. I also learnt to make lifestyle changes that boosted my
energy and efficiency which means that not only do I have more time, I can also
stay focused and make better use of this time.'
These comments were made more than two years after the workshop which goes to show that a little time spent planning how we work can pay huge dividends in the long term.
The changes made by this participant were very simple:
1) Set a finish time for the day
If you know you have to be out of the office by 5.30pm to get home to eat dinner with the family, you'll run your day very differently than if you'd like to finish work on time but don't treat this objective as a high priority. On busy days you may find that work creeps just a little beyond 5.30pm but without a firm finish time to aim for, working until 7.00pm and beyond can become the norm. Do this too often it can be a tricky habit to break.
2) Eat a healthy breakfast
Fuelling yourself properly at the beginning of the day, and topping up your energy levels throughout the day, will improve your clarity of thought, your decision making abilities and your effectiveness. You'll get more done, more efficiently and you'll maintain a more positive outlook no matter how busy you are. You'll then have more energy for enjoying life beyond the office in the evenings and at weekends.
3) Protect your regular planning time
A proactive work schedule prioritises quality over quantity. Getting strategic about who you meet, when you meet, how you communicate, and how you delegate tasks can save you and your team an enormous amount of time and effort. Regularly review your working practices and make quick changes where appropriate. This will ensure bad habits don't creep in and will help you focus on why it's important to protect success strategies. Short cuts are all very well but they often lead to compromised efficiency if left unchallenged.
Ultimately, the key to a healthy balance in your life is simple:
- Take responsibility for what you want your routine to look like
- Plan the necessary actions to lead you towards what good looks like
- Be clear on the benefits to you and those around you of why it's worth making the effort to maintain your desired balance. If the upside is exciting enough, you'll always protect your boundaries
- Take regular action to protect your desired balance
Regular action includes immediate action so why not highlight one or two things you can do differently today that will help you towards achieving the balance in life that's right for you? Read more on this article...
Friday, 7 June 2013
Men's Health, Performance and A Competitive Edge
- What are your specific objectives with your health, wellness and energy levels?
- If you were as fit, healthy, energetic and effective as you'd like to be, what would be happening in future that isn't happening now?
- If you were to begin today, what will you do differently to bridge the gap between where you'd like to be with your wellbeing, and where you are now?
- What's stopping you from achieving your objectives and what possible solutions are available to you?
Monday, 21 May 2012
Create a Healthy Work/Life Balance
Here is the first part of a series of tips on how to manage your time effectively, so you can lead a healthier lifestyle and still have energy for fun without burning out.
- How do you want your life to look?
- Who is important to you?
- Which activities do you enjoy?
Monday, 27 July 2009
How to stay feeling great after a holiday
If your holiday has been a good one, you’ll be returning home with a refreshed attitude vowing never to let things get on top of you again. You'll be feeling fit from all the strolling on the beach and swimming and water sports and you'll be feeling healthy and recharged. Hopefully....
So, now is the time to seize the good feelings and make them last. Here are some tips to help you achieve that goal and maintain your post-holiday optimism.
1. If you want your results at work to be different, make sure you know what you’re going to do differently. If you simply fall back into old habits and behaviour patterns, you’ll end up with the same frustrations you were experiencing before you left so decide what new practical actions you are going to implement and put them into place right away. If you’re going to delegate more, what’s the first thing you’ll delegate? If you’re going to work shorter hours, what do you need to do to make sure this happens?
2. Learn the lessons of the holiday. Holidays are about individuals operating in ways that suit them best so observe how you enjoyed spending your days while you were away. Think about how much sleep you got, what time of the day you got up, what time your preferred bedtime was and what thoughts and ambitions came to your mind when you had some mental capacity to spare. You can’t live your life on holiday but if you can draw some of the positive influences from your holiday into your working routine, you’re less likely to feel compromised by life in the office.
3. Recognise why the holiday has had such a great impact on you and remember it. If you really understand the value of this time off as part of your overall performance strategy you’ll be much more likely to make time for them in the future and to make sure that you make the most of each opportunity to take a break and come back stronger and more efficient. All work and no play......
Photograph by M Dot (Flickr)
Thursday, 18 September 2008
Office life is getting tense - lighten yours up

It's impossible at the moment to switch on the news without hearing about banks closing, mortgage houses collapsing and doom, doom and more gloom where money and the future is concerned.
This is bound to effect the attitude people have to work and employees can start to look around for safer bets. Staff turnover is always higher than any organisation would like but it's costly too. Now is the time to be motivating staff to feel happy and secure where they are and incentivising them to choose to stay put rather than be tempted elsewhere. But how can you do this without throwing more money at the situation? Remember, pay rises don't always get loyalty.
There are many great ways to make employees feel valued and wanted by an organisation and sometimes, it's easy to miss the point and just give a small pay rise or a change of job title. If you're looking for something that will cost you less but inject your business with a bit of buzz, why not try one or all of the following:
1. Wellness Program - a heath, fitness and relaxation program offered to staff is a great way of telling them you value their well being, you want them to be less stressed and you want them to have fun with their colleagues whilst achieving a great personal health goal they may have. Anything from yoga classes to relaxation sessions, running club to team football. These perks will always leave your staff feeling indulged and valued. Find out how to organise events like these for your teams.
2. Get Flexible - Work and Life work well together when they are balanced but when one demands too much at the cost of the other, the individual caught in the middle always suffers. Why not allow staff to work from home once a week with clearly set out targets and a lot of trust. This change can achieve staff loyalty in next to no time and is usually rewarded with hard work - not slacking. Review this each month so both parties know it is working.
3. Start Listening - personal Development Reviews are sometimes ignored by companies but it is the only official time that employees feel listened to so start doing them regularly and make sure issues and gripes get listened to an acknowledged. When employees leave companies, it is often because they feel like a number. Address that issue once and for all by being pro-active. You'll gain their respect.
Thursday, 19 June 2008
Too Busy in the Office?
Do you hear yourself saying 'Where does the time go..?' or 'I feel like I haven't got anything done?'
Every day around the world a common complaint in the office is that there just isn’t time to get everything done. The result of packed schedules is that workers don’t achieve everything they’d like to during their time at work or they don’t perform to the standard they feel is right for them.
Here are 3 ways to get more done each day, leave work on time and go home satisfied you've achieved a huge amount without being frazzled at the end
1. Set time limits
Rather than starting a task and allowing it to take as long as it takes, decide in advance how long you are willing to spend on each activity. If you’re clear with yourself with what time you want a job completed by, you’ll focus and avoid distraction to make sure it’s done in time. Emails could take no more than 5 minutes; calls no longer than 10 minutes and meetings no longer than half an hour. If you don’t set time limits you can find yourself at the end of a day still trying to complete something you started first thing.
2. Take breaks
If you arrive at work in the morning and the day stretches out ahead of you as one big block of busy-ness, you can feel overwhelmed. Planning regular breaks means you’ll work effectively in short sharp bursts of productivity punctuated with slots of doing something that takes your mind off work and clears your head ready for the next round of activity.
3. Move on quickly
One person we worked with had a 40 minute time limit for everything he did during a day. Whether it be proposals, costings, meetings or lunches; whatever he was doing, he’d move on to the next task after 40 minutes. He claimed that after this time he stopped having useful thoughts on each task so he’d move on to re-energise his brain. He also built in a slot during each day to return to any tasks with thoughts that came into his head while he was thinking about other things.
The key to success with getting more done is to maintain energy and focus throughout each day. This is best achieved by making progress so always keep in mind how each task you take is moving you forwards. If at any stage you feel your not making progress, your energy and motivation will wane and results will slow. You're at work to get things done and achieve a something, but you don't want to spend all your time there and hours thinking about the office when you get home.
Do it, Get it Done, Get home.
Tuesday, 10 June 2008
3 Ways to Make Your Office Better
Office life, when it's fun and productive, you don't mind being there at all. And you're earning money as a bonus. When it's tense, boring or worse, bitchy, it can be hell on earth. And no amount of salary can make it feel OK.
Here are the 3 most successful methods we've used to turn the atmosphere and productivity of an office round in the past. With advice on how you can do it for your work space.
1. Start a Softball Team / Soccer Team
We introduce team sports to office and organize tournaments. Softball is usually the most successful because unlike other sports, not many people are 'experts' and it is as inclusive for men as for women. It's a fun game which means that although it gets competitive, there is still lots of laughing and camaraderie. We manage the whole even for organizations but if you were to try this in your office, the key to making these tournaments work is appointing someone in the office to be the Chief Tournament Officer. They put up the print outs detailing game dates and league tables etc. There is always someone in the office who loves a bit of a spreadsheet! Bosses love this because it creates a unity amongst staff, it's a real leveller - CEO plays alongside junior exec etc. and it promotes a feeling of loyalty to the company.
2. Relaxation Sessions
We usually train staff to get fitter and help them to unwind and manage their sleep and stress. One thing that never ceases to amaze me is how well stressed out (men in particular) take to the relaxation and yoga sessions we offer. We learned pretty early that by labelling the sessions as yoga, the employees would always arrive skeptical about it all. When we called them Relaxation sessions, everyone was motivated to give it a go. Despite it being the same thing. The most successful has been sessions the day before employees have to do presentations or run important meetings. It seems to take the nerves away and leave a sense of calm. So perhaps try organizing these in your company the day before a pitch or AGM.
3.One to One Sessions
OK - these tend to be a more costly benefit offered to lucky employees but they are hugely effective in helping employees increase confidence, self esteem and balance home life and work life so much better. most people get pushed and pulled in all areas of their life and always feel that something suffers. It doesn't have to be this way and simple coaching techniques and analysis of their current situation often leads to a light bulb moment for people. They rarely slip back into their old habits.
If you were to try and do something similar for your office, perhaps start mentoring programs that deal with life as a whole and not just career progress.
I hope you get to try one of these options - or all of them - with your office and I'd love to hear your questions and feedback. Every office can be made better - I haven't come across one yet that couldn't.
Thursday, 5 June 2008
Nice Co-Workers Means More than Salary
According to a new report out this week, a good salary isn't what makes us happiest about going into the office everyday. It's getting on with our co-workers that makes the job the most rewarding. The Happiness index also concluded that workers increasingly need work to be stimulating and interesting. Getting paid isn't enough of a reward. This is great news
For a long time now, I've believed that people who talk about work life balance and struggling to make it work are looking at it the wrong way. Work and Life shouldn't be completely separate because each is of huge value. Work is important to making us feel that we are contributing something to the world, adding value to something and getting rewarded for it.
The perfect situation would be a job that gives us a greater sense of self and makes us feel good at something and a home life that is stimulating and relaxing in equal measure. The people that manage to achieve this are those who work hard in both areas of their life rather than see home as a refuge from the office.
This report claims that good relationships with your co-workers is more important than salary in terms of making you feel happy at work. It can even influence people staying on at a company. (read: reduce recruitment costs) Some of the workplaces I've visited with work, the happiest firms are always the places where there is a camaraderie amongst staff and a belief in why they are all there working so hard. The least happy work environments have been those where hierarchy reigns and employees have never even met their big boss. We're all human beings and thrive on relationships. Why should work be any different?
One final interesting point to come out of the study was that the happiest worker profile in the UK was Female, over 60 years old, beauty therapist living in the North East England; The unhappiest was Male, 40-49 year old, builder living in Northern Ireland. take from that what you will but I think the fact the one job is very nurturing, all about human contact and pleasure giving speaks volumes.
Read the full report here.
Monday, 2 June 2008
Surfing the net is good for the office
They used to call them tea breaks. And some folk call them fag breaks. But for the majority, it's all about E-breaks. That 10 minute surf online to get your banking done or read emails on Facebook. These mini breaks have become a life line to people in offices and helps to break up the day but as more and more companies block Facebook and other social networking sites, have they made a mistake?
According to a new report, surfing the internet actually makes workers more productive because it boosts morale and helps reduce stress.
Seemingly, the right length of break to surf the internet can be even more beneficial than the good old fashioned English tea break which has always been at the heart of successful British working culture.
This research illustrates something that we've known for a long time which is that there are two key factors to creating the ideal workplace.
1. Make sure every single person within the organisation is catered for when implementing staff benefits and incentives.
The tea break appealed to everyone in the past because:
a) everyone drank tea and
b) it was a legitimate time away from the work station. E-breaks are popular because most people either enjoy surfing social networking sites or appreciate time to take care of some personal admin online. Other popular incentives such as flexible working hours and trading hours worked for extra holiday work well because they will appeal to the majority of the workforce at some time, whether it be now or in the future.
2. Make sure benefits and incentives do actually benefit the staff and the organisation.
Every single individual likes to be recognised and appreciates being valued. Providing workers with a benefit that is all about them is the best way in the world to encourage them to think positively about you as an individual in your role in the business and to feel valued by the business as a whole. If they experience these feelings regularly, they will perform to the best of their abilities for the majority of the time. In short, the right incentives, delivered the right way mean everyone's a winner.
When we work with our clients we make sure that participants in our programmes have the opportunity to receive help and advice on all aspects of their health, fitness, diet and lifestyle. We never forget that people have equally important roles to play in their lives as well as being employees. We always try to ensure that employees have the opportunity to work on personal issues both from the workplace and in their wider world, meaning they can develop skills that benefit them personally as well as the business.
And this is the kind of feedback that tells us we got it right...Since we began the programme, the impact to the participants at both a personal and business level has been fantastic and we're seeing a real improvement in motivation, happiness and quality of work - thus impacting on the service to customers.
If you're interested to read more about how we can achieve such results, visit our website
Thursday, 29 May 2008
Don't Hate the Office, Work It!
There's so much more to be gained from going to the office everyday (salary aside). You can learn so much - and get paid for it. Confused? Okay, let me explain. When it comes to learning new skills at work, what do you think employees value the most? Mastering power point presentations or perhaps Leadership training? Well, a report published last week in the Human Resources Magazine listed the things at work that employees learned which they found most valuable. The list included:
• Communication Skills
• Interpersonal Skills
• Team Working
• IT Skills
It’s clear from the above list that what people most value from their time at work is their ability to develop life skills. There’s not much emphasis on learning specific tasks, systems and procedures, but there is great importance attached to learning skills that make you better able to work with or manage the people responsible for the tasks, systems and procedures.
This comes as no surprise to me.
It is consistent with the business people that we work with on our programmes. By teaching people how to look after their health and wellbeing, we provide them with all the resources they require to maximise their energy, increase their mental capacity and improve their focus and efficiency. These skills are invaluable in the workplace but also enable people to operate more effectively in every area of their lives. Learning these skills within the working environment means staff view their employer positively. Sometimes, people struggle to see how looking after staff wellness can transform the performance they get. To answer that, here’s a quick run down of the top three tips for keeping staff engaged and fully motivated.
1.Every day is learning at work day
Everyone needs to work but fewer and fewer people these days are motivated by just earning a living. They want to learn some thing new every day and always feel as though they are growing and developing. If you can ensure that your employees go home to their families feeling positive and saying, ‘guess what I learned today at work’, you’ll have a much more lively workplace than if employees simply report that work was 'Oh, you know, same old same old' or, worse than that, 'I don't want to talk about it.'
2. Keep it simple
Communication skills, interpersonal skills and team working are all things that you might think would come most naturally to anyone in the workplace but, as our list suggests they are areas that people most appreciate having the opportunity to work on.
The same goes for eating well, taking exercise and managing stress. You might think that handling these areas is easy or that they’ll take care of themselves but they are often the areas that are most overlooked. Offering staff simple, practical and consistent information and advice ensures they can make easy progress in these areas. It also sends a very strong message that being at work doesn’t mean putting the rest of your life on hold, rather you can learn new information at work that has positive implications for the rest of your life. Not so much work – life balance, more work as part of life balance.
3. Make it relevant
When it comes to health and wellbeing, the message you deliver to staff is all important. If staff think that all you’re interested in is keeping them healthy so you can drive them harder then you’ll have trouble motivating them towards even the most exciting initiatives.
If they understand that what you’re offering them is designed to help energize them and upgrade how they feel while they’re at work while also injecting them with energy and enthusiasm for what ever they choose to do outside of work, they’ll be much more likely to view your initiatives favourably.
Show this post to your boss, it may just get them thinking.
And if you are the Boss, what are you waiting for?



